Emotional intelligence: how do you recognize it?

At least once in your life you meet one person For real special. A talented person who knows how to put others at ease. The main characteristics of such people are sincerity, transparency and understanding. Thanks to the Talent Smart project, the experts were able to identify the aspects of these people. It is about ten quirks.

They really listen and ask questions: Many people are so involved in understanding when the other person stops speaking that they fail to understand the meaning of the speech. Others, on the other hand, listen deeply and actively participate in the dialogue, also asking questions to clarify and deepen the issue being addressed. An art that anyone can learn.

They put away the smartphone: Some people get irritated when they see the other person texting while they are talking. There is always time to use the smartphone, so the energies should be focused on listening to the person speaking.

They are honest and transparent: Such people have something to hide, that’s why no one likes them. It is better to trust real people so that we can trust them better. It’s normal, we all prefer it.

They don’t judge others: When you judge a person, you always express an opinion about others, but really special people don’t judge others. To eliminate the temptation to judge, one must look at the world through the eyes of others. Only then will people be themselves.

They leave a positive first impression: We tend to decide if we like someone or not during the first 7 seconds of a match. Then we justify our first reaction otherwise. Special people also tend to make a better first impression than others with their body language.

They call people by name: The name is part of us. When we hear our name spoken, even during a greeting, we feel considered. Here you have to call people by name to greet and talk to them.

They laugh: Subconsciously, we all tend to mimic the body language of the person we are talking to. To make a good impression on others, you have to smile. The smile is contagious and brings well-being.

They know when it’s time to open up to others: Sometimes it’s hard to strike up a conversation with someone we’ve only known for a short time. For others, it is normal to tell a stranger their life in detail. Truly special people know when the time is right to open up to others and know how to guide the interlocutor.

They work with passion: People are often attracted to people who show passion in what they do (work). Special people know how to work seriously and are also kind to others. It is better to focus on positive interactions.

They are really unique: Special people are easily loved by others and have a prestigious value. Building relationships is easy for them, they bring harmony to the workplace, have more fun than others and help others to get the best out of themselves.