There is only one female orgasm, and it, of course, can be achieved through anal sex.

Finally, in recent years (much less than we would like) the clitoris has been given the attention it deserves. It is clear that this is a very important organ for achieving orgasm and that in fact there are people who are unable to achieve this unless encouraged. The problem is that, thinking that the clitoris was practically a unicorn, we moved on to talking about two hundred thousands of types of orgasm: vaginal, clitoral, anal… There was almost a competition about which was better and more pleasant. There are even feminist groups that blame patriarchy for trying to achieve orgasm through means that don’t include the clitoris in the equation, such as anal sex. From one problem we got many others. However, this dilemma can be boiled down to something very simple: there is only one orgasm, but there are an infinite number of ways to achieve it.

This ever-present dilemma has become the focus of social media attention after… A country publish an article about anal sex for women. It’s true that anal sex is quite common in for not. For this reason, many people began to argue that a woman can enjoy anal sex, but in fact, those who engage in this simply want Please, men under the influence of pornography. The reason they come to this conclusion is that orgasm can only be achieved through clitoral stimulation, so it cannot be achieved with anal sex. But this is not true.

Of course, orgasm can be achieved by stimulating the clitoris. But also nipples, perineum or practically any part of the body that has a sufficient number of nerve endings. But this does not mean that there are many types of orgasm. They are all the same, but are achieved in different ways, and it depends on each person. There are no better or worse ways, there are only those that each person likes the most.

There is only one orgasm and it is not necessary

Let’s talk about orgasm. This is known as the sudden release of tension accumulated during sexual activity. It is usually manifested by rhythmic contractions of the muscles of the pelvic region and a strong sensation pleasure. Both phenomena have an evolutionary explanation.

It is believed that vaginal contractions may help retain sperm in the cervix, increasing the likelihood of pregnancy. This is necessary for immortalize the view. That’s why it also comes with pleasure. If the sperm doesn’t fertilize the egg the first time, more attempts will be required, so pleasure ensures that we are left wanting more. In fact, it is controlled by the brain’s reward systems, which are activated in other pleasurable situations, such as eating chocolate or drinking alcohol. Unfortunately, they are not always useful incentives.

To achieve orgasm, you ideally need to stimulate very sensitive areas where there is a strong impact. collection of nerve endings. That’s why, clitoris and penis These are the two most famous organs of orgasm because they have a large number of nerve endings that contribute to the sensation of pleasure. But the same thing happens in other sensitive areas, such as the nipples. Also, for people with a clitoris, there really aren’t many nerve endings in the vagina, so it’s hard to get to, but the cervix does have them, so it can be reached through vaginal penetration.

As for anal sex, it can be used to stimulate crotchwhich also has a large concentration of nerve endings, so yes: you can achieve orgasm.

Unconventional ways to achieve orgasm

Some people can have an orgasm without touching themselves, just through imagination. In fact, this is what can be seen in a scene from the last season of the series. Sex education, where Cal achieves orgasm just by watching the video; which he later stated he didn’t even find particularly attractive. Without further ado, he brought his imagination into play.

There are also people who achieve orgasm by stimulating body parts such as earlobe. There are even those who achieve this by doing abdominal exercises. It’s so common that it has its own name: abdorgasm. But no, this is not a different type of orgasm, because there is only one orgasm.

It should now be clear that pleasure is experienced during sexual relations as long as the appropriate areas are stimulated and there is peace and communication between the people who practice it. Orgasm one end of the journey, but we can enjoy it all. In fact, it is not necessary to reach this destination; we can end up in another one and enjoy it just as much. We shouldn’t get hung up on this.

What about anal sex?

There is a large amount in the anus Nerve endings, and this is also very connected, both with the prostate, in people with a penis, and with the perineum for everyone. Additionally, during anal sex you can look for ways to stimulate other structures, such as the clitoris itself.

Therefore, it can be a very enjoyable practice, regardless of whether it appears in porn. What then is the problem with its use? Is there really a patriarchal oppression associated with anal sex? Not necessary.

The problem with anal sex and any other sexual practice is that it is performed without agreement. Even sex that involves clitoral stimulation is assault unless there is explicit consent from the other person.

And this is consent This should not be done under duress.. “Other women like it, why not you?” “I love it and I need you to do it for me.” “Don’t be narrow.” These types of phrases may end in agreement due to fear of being different or fear of losing that person. But this is forced consent, and also abuse.

The problem with patriarchal oppression is not anal sex. Problems include lack of consent, coercion, and decisions or opinions about other people’s lives. Because experiencing and enjoying anal sex freely and consensually is not wrong. Expressing opinions about the sexuality of others is.